and still can't stop them.
Uncover The 3 Shadow Patterns Blocking You From Healthy Love — And How To Finally Heal (without more surface level awareness)90-Minute Live Masterclass I'm Done Repeating This — Save My Spot April 29, 2026 · 7:30pm AEST · $27
You've done the work.
The therapy, the journaling, the courses. You can name your patterns, trace them back, and honestly write a thesis on them at this point.
but, you're still doing it..
- You keep ending up in relationships that feel different at the start… and somehow turn into the same thing
- You adapt, overgive, or reshape yourself to be chosen — and still don't feel fully chosen
- You know your patterns, your attachment style, your wounds… and still can't stop repeating them
- You try to communicate, set boundaries, do it "right" — and still end up back in the same dynamic
- You're with someone good… and instead of feeling safe, you feel anxious, on edge, or waiting for it to fall apart
- You struggle to detach — even when you know the relationship isn't right
- You feel like you've done more work than most people… and somehow feel more stuck than ever
- You don't understand why you keep ending up here — again and again
This isn't a knowledge problem.
If awareness was enough — you wouldn't still be in this pattern.
Awareness lives in your mind.
Your pattern lives somewhere deeper.
There's a reason why some women can feel triggered and stay with themselves — while others spiral before they've even decided to.
There's a reason why some women stay grounded in a good relationship — while others wait for it to fall apart.
And it has nothing to do with how much you understand your patterns, how much work you've done, or how self-aware you are.
It comes down to what's happening underneath — in your body, not your mind.
The part of you that runs this pattern isn't logical. It's protective. It learned to respond this way before you were old enough to choose anything different — and it doesn't care what you know now.
More awareness isn't fixing it. It's just giving you a front-row seat to the same show.
You don't need more tools. You need to understand something you haven't been shown yet.
More awareness
isn't the missing piece.
Seeing what's underneath it — that is.
I've done so much therapy and understood all of it. This was the first time something actually moved.
— Louise - NSWI watched myself almost blow up a really good relationship because of the pattern. After this I finally understood what was actually happening.
— Celia - VICI used to need constant reassurance to feel okay. Now I can feel something come up, stay with it, and not make it his problem. That shift changed everything.
— Amy - VICI could explain my pattern perfectly and still couldn't stop it. This was the first thing that actually got underneath it.
— Tori - QLD
What you'll finally
understand inside Love Alchemy.
What awareness alone
has never been able to show you.
You don't need more understanding.
You need to see what awareness
has never been able to reach.
This is about finally seeing what's actually driving the pattern — underneath the awareness, underneath the language, underneath everything you've already tried so you can ACTUALLY heal your relationship patterns.
I work with the women who've done
everything and are still stuck.
I don’t teach awareness - I teach what happens when awareness fails.
For years, I did the work — therapy, tools, frameworks — and still found myself repeating the same relationship patterns.
Because the part of me running the pattern wasn’t logical.
Everything changed when I started working with somatic shadow work — accessing the unconscious patterns held in the body, not just the mind.
Since then, I’ve worked with 1,000+ clients across 17+ countries, run retreats, and built a coaching certification training practitioners in this work.
In this masterclass, I'll be giving you the map to your deepest healing so you can stop running the same patterns and sabotaging your relationships.
You already know
this is you.
You knew it from the first line on this page.
You're not looking
for more insight.
- You've done therapy, inner work, or self-development — and you're still repeating the same pattern. You're not looking for more insight. You're looking for the thing that's actually been missing.
- You have the language but lose access to all of it the moment something feels threatening. You're articulate, self-aware, and completely gone when it counts.
- You're in something good and you're still waiting for it to fall apart. You know the relationship is healthy. You still can't fully land in it.
- You're exhausted by knowing better and still doing it anyway. You're not someone who avoids hard things. And something needs to actually change.
- You already know this is you. You knew it from the first line on this page.
Not for you if you want surface-level tools, mindset hacks, or something passive to consume and move on from.
Love Alchemy.
Live Masterclass.
Everything you
need to know.
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It's a live 90-minute session on April 29th at 7:30PM AEST on Zoom — join from wherever you are, from the comfort of your own home. Caitlin walks you through exactly what's been happening underneath the awareness. Not more tools. Not more insight. The thing that's actually been missing.
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Highly recommended — the live experience is different. But a replay is included for everyone who registers, so you won't miss it if something comes up.
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No. This is specifically for people who already understand their patterns and are still repeating them. If therapy gave you insight and you're still stuck — this goes somewhere different.
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Not at all. You can show up, be fully present, and get everything from it without saying a word. You are never asked to do anything you're not comfortable with.
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In my experience — absolutely. I've been running online and in-person events for almost a decade and the transformations are the same across the board. Zoom removes the barrier of travel and puts you in the environment where you actually feel most safe — which, for this kind of work, is a good thing.
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Yes. Replay access is included for all registered attendees.
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It's a single live masterclass. No ongoing commitment, no program. Just one session that shows you what's actually been missing.
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Just yourself, a device, and somewhere you can watch without interruption. No prep required. The best part about Zoom is you can do this from your couch.
